Of course we're all getting older...each day. And, if we're lucky enough to still have at least one of our parents, they are aging with us.
We don't like to think about this in our day to day life, but sometimes there are trigger events that signal that there may be something wrong. Sometimes it's gradual and other times it's obvious. If our parent's have a fall or need an operation, it may mean that they need some extra care. That could be temporary or it could be long term. It all depends on the situation of course.
Sometimes the issues are physical (such as a fall or difficulty getting up the steps) and sometimes it's mental (i.e. early signs of dementia or Alzheimer's). You want to be observant and alert to changes that may signal a problem. Why? Well first because you want to make sure your parents are healthy and happy. But, also, early detection can lead to provention or slower progression. Sometimes medicines can help; sometimes physical therapy, sometimes mental stimulation. If you are considering home care for your parent, it's best to talk to a home care provider early...in fact before you think that you may need it.
Why? Because they can help guide you through the process. They can advise you on what your insurance covers (you may be pleasantly surprised) and what it doesn't. They can give you safety tips for your home, and they can provide options for you. Many don't realize that you can get part-time help...an it can be very part time at the beginning (even just a few hours a week).
I know we often avoid thinking about this, but it's not the best approach. Think about this like "preventative maintenance." You know if you catch issues with your car or home early, they are easier and less expensive to fix. The same goes with people. Even though this is a tough subject, we share the same goal: we want our parents to live a better life for as long as possible.
