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Divorced But Still On The Home's Mortgage

Written by on Wednesday, 05 February 2014 2:13 pm

Q. My ex-husband and I bought a house in 2000. We divorced in 2010, and pursuant to our divorce decree, he kept the house and I moved out. We both remarried last year. My new husband and I have a new mortgage on our home, after fighting to prove to the lender that my ex has the previous house.

I know my ex has changed something on his mortgage. He was making higher payments for a year after he fell behind a couple of months. I really don't know the details because I no longer own the house.

Is there anything I can do to get my name removed from the mortgage so that my ex's late mortgage payments do not affect my credit? I have excellent credit and have written to the credit bureaus, but his late payments keep showing up on my reports.

A. This is a common problem, largely caused by divorce lawyers who do not understand real estate and mortgage law.

As is often the case, you transferred ownership of the house to your former husband, but you remain legally obligated to make the mortgage payments.

That's because when you and your ex-husband bought the house, you both signed two legal documents: a promissory note and a deed of trust.

The note is an IOU. The two of you - jointly and severally - agreed to make the monthly mortgage payments. "Jointly and severally" means that each of you are fully responsible for meeting the terms and conditions of the note. And one of the conditions is that you must make the payments on time every month or both of you will be in default.

You also signed a deed of trust, which in some states is called a mortgage. It is recorded among the land records where your property is located. It is the security that the lender needs to extend you the mortgage loan.

You both deeded the property to a trustee selected by your lender, who holds the property in trust. That means that if you ultimately pay off the mortgage, the trustee will release the deed of trust. If you and your ex-husband go into default, the lender has the right to tell the trustee to foreclose on your property.

Although you are no longer married to your ex-husband, your name is still on the note and the original deed of trust remains in place.

The bottom line is that your divorce lawyer should have required that your ex-husband refinance the existing mortgage within a set time.

Divorce and Real EstateAppropriate enforcement mechanisms should have been included in your separation agreement, such as requiring that the house be sold if it couldn't be refinanced. If your ex-husband refinances the house, that would completely relieve you from any further obligations under that old promissory note.

So how did you manage to get a loan for the house where you live now, even though you're still legally tied to that other mortgage? Lenders will show a degree of flexibility, because your situation is not unique.

One banker told me that his bank has procedures for dealing with post-divorce cases such as yours. The bank won't count that previous debt against the applicant if, "there is a judicial decree stating that the old mortgage is no longer the responsibility of the applicant, and we see that the old mortgage has been paid by the ex for a period of 12 months."

The banker said, "We must have the actual divorce decree and either get 12 months cancelled checks or a letter from the mortgage company that services the old mortgage."

However, it is often difficult to get that information from mortgage companies, because they often do not know who sends in the check. And with electronic and automatic payments, this becomes almost impossible.

Given that your divorce did not require that your ex-husband refinance the house, what should you do now?

First, because you are still on the mortgage, you have the right to know whether it is being paid on time. If you learn that your ex-husband is paying late or not at all, you should immediately write to all three major credit reporting bureaus. Explain that you are no longer the property owner, that your ex-husband is required to make the payments and that his lateness should not hurt your credit.

Second, if you want to refinance your current home, or buy a different one, you should seek a lender that understands these situations and is willing to work with you.

However, as the Banker made it clear, if you can't get the divorce decree and the documentation showing that the loan has become your ex's responsibility, things become more complicated. "Then we do need to consider the old mortgage into the debt-to-income ratios, and that can make a substantial difference in terms of qualification," he said. Lenders will review each loan application on a case-by-case basis.

These are unnecessary complications that should be headed off in advance. Couples who are divorcing should address this issue during the process, instead of waiting until it is too late.

There is yet another obstacle. In most states, if property is transferred between husband and wife, there is generally no recordation or transfer tax to pay. But once the parties are divorced, if there is a transfer between the parties, the local recorder of deeds will require that those taxes be paid - and in some states, (depending on the value of the property) that can be a hefty fee.

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  • Comment Link Cynthia Biddle Friday, 25 July 2014 12:17 pm posted by Cynthia Biddle

    Same thing. ex spouse did not refinance (was unable) now it is going to foreclosure. My question is...Do I still have legal right to go into the home....take material belongings from the home?

  • Comment Link Kendra Tuesday, 22 July 2014 10:24 am posted by Kendra

    I am getting a divorce and we bought our house 4 years ago but its all in his name I am going to keep the house but I want to add my name to the loan how can I go about doing that without having to spend a lot of money or making the monthly payment go up? Help

  • Comment Link Tammy Wednesday, 16 July 2014 10:44 am posted by Tammy

    I have a question. I got a divorce almost 5 years ago and in the divorce decree it stated that he was to refinance the house to have my name taken off of it. As he kept the house. He still has not done that and probably can not due to him filing bankrupcy. What are my options here. Can he sell this house with my name on it? If he does sell, am I able to claim half?

  • Comment Link Aly Monday, 14 July 2014 9:24 am posted by Aly

    I have a ?? My husbands ex had him sign a quit deed claim over to her 14 yrs. ago but his name still remains on the loan even though he put it on his bankruptcy. She couldn't refinance due to credit issues & is always late on her payments which I believe is bringing his credit score down (is it true that everytime she's late, it affects his credit?) which is making it hard for us to purchase a home...He does not want to assume the loan..Can he force her to sell the home, split the $ to get his name off?

  • Comment Link gt tx Thursday, 26 June 2014 12:47 pm posted by gt tx

    I am selling my home. my name is on the mortgage deed. I owned a home before I got remarried so does my current husband need to go to the closing or sign any documents if his name is not on any of the paperwork or not on the mortgage deed?

  • Comment Link vb Wednesday, 25 June 2014 9:11 pm posted by vb

    im separtated 6 months. My EX and I bought a house thats worth 850k with 450k in equity. A few years back we refinanced and the bank gave a much better rate to her and not me. I have alot of student loans. So the mortgage in only in her name and we are both on the deed. Shes now saying she wants to refinance to get a lower interest rate and I will have to cosign the new mortgage. Im paying half the current mortgage as well as my apartment rent ( about 1750 each). Is she scamming me?
    What are my options. PLEASE offer advice and counsel


  • Comment Link Jim Tuesday, 24 June 2014 7:14 pm posted by Jim

    What happens if the one that is deeded the property, but is still on the mortgage jointly with me cannot afford to refinance the mortgage.

  • Comment Link James Sunday, 01 June 2014 1:46 pm posted by James

    My ex wife was awarded our home in a divorce,But I'm still on the mortgage and now she wants to the reality has call and said I need to sign some pappers but he saying I don't need to of today.And they where no quick released papper in our divorce wrote up 6 yrs ago.So what can I do???

  • Comment Link TLD Wednesday, 28 May 2014 11:55 am posted by TLD

    Yes, refinancing the mortgage is the best advice for most of us however .it cost money to do so and my x does not want to do that just to get my name off of it. I'm in a pickle since I a barly making any-money as I try to get on my own two feet. Any suggestion?

  • Comment Link Kathleen Cuadra Sunday, 25 May 2014 9:11 am posted by Kathleen Cuadra

    I divorced since 2010 my ex still has 2 properties owned jointly with me is it at all possible that I can force the sale of these properties

  • Comment Link bonnie taggart Friday, 16 May 2014 10:58 am posted by bonnie taggart

    I have a quick question. I am still on my exs 2nd mortgage and he is selling the home now. finally... but i am now being asked to go to the closing to sign off the title? I am still financially responsible for the home if he has to bring money to the table or will the divorce decree save me from that???

  • Comment Link Karen Tuesday, 08 April 2014 1:35 pm posted by Karen

    I'm having a problem with an ex too, we had a mortgage together we got divorced and I gave him £10,000 to get his name off the deeds so I could stay there with our daughter, now he's saying he wants his name off the mortgage as he want a house with his new wife and can't get one as his name is already on one mortgage does anybody no if this is true, thanks

  • Comment Link Gerret Qumey Monday, 10 February 2014 11:24 pm posted by Gerret Qumey

    The same situation was faced by me in last summer. My lawyer advice me to have a agreement signed between me and my ex. Agreement says that we both have the ownership of the house, mortgage price had to be paid by the two.

  • Comment Link Christine Volz Friday, 07 February 2014 4:08 pm posted by Christine Volz

    Helpful article- I recently came across a divorcing couple where the one that kept the home, did not end up doing a full refinance--and did a "Novation" or transfer of obligation from two parties to one party. This was less costly, keeping existing interest rate, and remained at the same servicer (Bank).

  • Comment Link EJ Parker Thursday, 06 February 2014 11:13 am posted by EJ Parker

    Excellent article written in very understandable language. Kudos to the author!

  • Comment Link jea Rowe Thursday, 06 February 2014 10:12 am posted by jea Rowe

    In the real world there a several reasons a refi would be difficult if not possible for the party given the house. If the original loan is at a lower interest rate then what is currently available and only has a few years left until pay off. A new loan in current market conditions could be impossible for a newly divorced person to obtain.

    I have never had an issue with lenders not accepting a copy of the property settlement to determine who is responsible for the mortgage.

  • Comment Link Joan Rogliano Thursday, 06 February 2014 8:31 am posted by Joan Rogliano

    Thank you Benny for the truly valuable information. I work with a lot of divorcing clients and have never heard of a lender discounting anyone from responsibility for a mortgage, even with a final decree. The best solution is to have the party who is retaining the home refinance the mortgage, which is cleaner for all parties. It has been my experience that most attorneys don't understand this and leave their clients vulnerable and incurring post decree legal bills.

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