Most of the learning we do in life is from observed behavior. This observed behavior happens in all environments from work to home. A few months ago, my wife, Joan, came to me because of observed behavior that Wesley, my five-year-old son, picked up. Joan was driving home from errands with Wesley in the car. She was following slow moving cars in front of her, and Wesley asked her why she was going so slow. Joan told him she couldn't go any faster because there was a car in from of her. Wesley asked her, "Why don't you just honk the horn; that's what Daddy does." I was busted! In Wesley's mind, due to observation, he learned that a slow moving car means you should honk the horn.

Your staff, especially the sales staff, will learn from you through observed behavior. They will learn how to prospect and how frequently they need to prospect and the duration in terms of time that they must prospect. They will learn how valuable leads are to your team, how to treat leads, and what to do with those leads. They will also learn what the standard of performance and expectation standards are through observed behavior. Your team will be able to observe how closely you are really monitoring them. They will observe if there is consistency in your rhetoric and your actions.

Champion Team Rule – People will only do consistently what you expect and inspect.

If you are unwilling to set clear expectations and inspect the progress and inspect the results, the outcome for your team will be far less than your goals for the team. If they know what is important to you and your business, and they know that you are watching or monitoring them, your probability of success increases considerably.

A word of caution, they won't react favorably to, "Do as I say, not as I do." If you want them to prospect consistently, you will have to set the personal example of consistency in this area. They will need to see you prospecting and making sales that link to your prospecting activities. For them to work the leads, treat them as valuable, and qualify them effectively, they will need to see you doing the same. If you want them to have a sense of urgency with the leads, you will need that sense of urgency in dealing with them, as well.

Being a successful leader of your team is only accomplished through monkey see ... monkey do!

Published: August 22, 2008

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Dirk Zeller is a sought out speaker, celebrated author and CEO of Real Estate Champions. His company trains more than 350,000 Agents worldwide each year through live events, online training, self-study programs, and newsletters. The Real Estate community has embraced and praised his six best-selling books; Your First Year in Real Estate, Success as a Real Estate Agent for Dummies®, The Champion Real Estate Agent, The Champion Real Estate Team, Telephone Sales for Dummies®, Successful Time Management for Dummies®, and over 300 articles in print. To learn more regarding this article, please visit www.realestatechampions.com.