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4 Ways to Prep Your Family When Moving to a New Town

Written by Posted On Monday, 08 January 2018 22:43

Moving to a new town can be exciting and scary all at the same time. There are simple things that you can do to prepare your family for this transition.

Stay Positive

Though it’s not easy, learn to make the most of the move and try to remain positive. Having an optimistic outcome will help your family to adjust If you want to dial down the drama and skip the waterfall of tears, then get your family excited about the things to do in the new town. Exploring the new sites is half the fun of being in a new city. Look for things that are geared toward children. Is there a zoo or amusement park nearby? Focus on the fun stuff that they haven’t got to experience yet. The power of positive thinking should be invoked here. When you are excited about something, it helps the children to avoid the emotional upset and upheaval.

Get to Know Your Neighbors

It’s quite overwhelming to be in a new city and not know anyone. Introduce yourself to some of your neighbors. If there are people in the vicinity of children, then you can easily spark relationships that are beneficial. After all, you found your piece of real estate, and it’s time to explore. Locals can help give you information about the best restaurants in town and the exciting things to do. Plus, a person can never have too many friends.

Use a Book to Help Them Understand the Transition Process

In a perfect world, everything would be sunshine and roses. However, when you have children, they have emotional outbursts regarding things that are upsetting to them. They aren’t sure how to deal with all these changes, and often their feelings of angst come out in behavioral issues. Reading a book on a similar subject matter can help a child. They can sympathize with characters in the story going through the same ordeal. Thus, they will be able to see how they dealt with the situation to learn their coping skills.

Increase Their Social Skills

Too many times, parents expect their children to develop relationships on their own. Get them involved in local clubs and other social functions. Not only will they learn new experiences, but they will have fun. Remind your child how easy it was when they were in preschool to make friends. To be a friend, you must show yourself friendly. Encourage them to be outgoing and social; then they will have plenty of people in their new town they are excited to see.

Moving is never easy, but with some positive thinking, joining social clubs, and getting them excited about the city, it will become an easy task.

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Rachelle Wilber

Rachelle Wilber is a former real estate agent now turned freelance writer that specializes in home realty, mortgage, and building. She graduated from San Diego State University with her Bachelor's Degree in Journalism and Media Studies.

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