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We Don't Rise to the Level of Our Expectations, We Fall to the Level of Our Training

Written by Posted On Thursday, 22 August 2019 05:25

Yes, I am quoting a Greek Philosopher. First let’s settle who I am quoting in the title of this article! According to many sources it was Archilochus, a Greek lyric poet from the Island of Paros who lived from 680 BC until 645 BC, but it’s not important who said it what matters is the point of the quote.

During my 19-year career I have heard REALTORS® say, “Every time I get a new designation like GRI, ABR or CRS my income increases.” Even 3-hour classes, seminars and webinars can lead to increased income as the agent expands both knowledge and confidence.

I believe there is one big downfall with people trying to rise to the level of expectations: making up answers to questions they don’t know the answer to! I have spent a good part of my life being a teacher, instructor, trainer and speaker and I know for a fact that you NEVER want to make stuff up or try and hide the fact you don’t know something! Some people have a hard time admitting they don’t know the answer to a question; not in my world. I simply say, “What a great question and I wish I had a great answer for that.” Normally I will ask them to write the question on a business card or a note with contact information so I can pass on the information after doing some research. People can see through a smoke screen, and by saying you don’t have an answer but will get one leads to more respect.

Getting back to the title, each of us need to expand our knowledge in the field we have chosen. Many of you have either read or heard me present the “4C’s and 3F’s” live. The 4C’s are Chemistry, Character, Competence and Consistency. Thinking that not having an answer reflects both our Competence and Consistency, most of the time the person asking the question will see you don’t know the answer and are making up an answer, and by faking it, there goes Chemistry and Character. It’s so simple and easy to say, “Sorry I don’t have that answer, but I will get it for you!” Oh, the 3F’s are Find Them, Fleece Them (which includes making up answers without having the facts) and finally Forget Them.

So, REALTORS®, training and more training and even more training. I get so tired of hearing, “Is it CE?” like that is the gold standard of real estate education. It should not be about CE, but rather raising the level of your training, because sometimes you will not be able to rise to the level of expectations!

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Dick Betts

Dick Betts, REALTOR® The Villages, FL with Touchstone Real Estate, Addie Owens, Broker, Mount Dora FL.  Dick has been working in the real estate industry for more than 20 years and brings his experience and expertise to help you find the best solution for your real estate needs.  Moving to Florida in 2008 he started in Ocala and began searching where in the state of Florida he wanted to call home, Florida has so many options, Beaches, Southeast, Southwest, the Panhandle.  After weighing his options, he found where he wanted to call home just 20 miles south of Ocala, The Villages!  Living fulltime in The Villages since 2011 his only regret was not moving there sooner.

Dick has traveled across North America since 2000 speaking, training and helping REALTORS® in 47 states and 5 Canadian Provinces hone their skills to better serve the public.  He now brings those years of experience to The Villages to help folks who also want to call The Villages home.  People looking to buy in The Villages are from around the world and need a tech savvy REALTOR® to serve their needs.  Selling in The Villages you want to list your home with somebody who knows how to market your home to the Facebook Generation and bring the most exposure possible to attract a buyer.

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